Let me start off by saying this again... It's been a while since I've posted. With that said, I found a new tool that I find really helpful. It's called Personal Capital. This is not a budgeting application like Mint. Although I still have a Mint account, I find myself rarely using it.
For one, I use Mint to follow my set budgets. Although I always go over what I've budgeted for groceries and miscellaneous fund, I use it here and there so I know where my money is going. Using it over the past few years, I've set up rules so that all my transactions are categorized properly. There are one off transactions from new places I go here and there but it's easy to set up a rule to categorize it going forward.
The reason I like Personal Capital is because it tracks your net worth. Your overall financial picutre, assets vs. liabilities. My mindset has changed from, don't go over a budget in mint, to, what is my overall net worth and how can I increase my net worth. At this point in my life, I know all my recurring monthly expenses and I have a good idea of how much money i'm spending per month on groceries and miscellaneous items.
The next step for me is finding ways to increase my overall net worth.